I got on the good brothas and told them the type of sistas to avoid so now it is the sistas turn. The following is a short list of brothas that good sistas should avoid. Please feel free to add on…… Help a sista out! Some men look harmless at first, but their habits and attitude make them trouble from the start. If you pay attention early, you can save yourself a lot of stress later. A woman should not ignore red flags just because a man is charming in the beginning.

The Eternal PlayBoy is old as hell and still trying to be a player. He refuses to let go of this lifestyle that he embraced since his youth. Now he is older and still thinks its 1995 in his mind and every woman wants him. He uses women to validate his self worth and thinks that he is smarter than every woman. Tell him and his gators to slide away because he will not change for you. He wants attention more than he wants commitment, and that alone should tell you enough.

The Baby Daddy Drama Keeper has so many baby mamas that he can barely keep their names straight. If you do decide to hubby him up then realize that you are taking on his 3 or 4 different baby mama’s and whatever drama they have. Unless he is a damn good man or rap star paid like T.I. or someone of that financial caliber, it is not worth the drama. A peaceful life is hard to keep when chaos already comes attached. Even if he is smooth with words, the baggage will show itself sooner or later.

The Super Possessive Dude is very protective and jealous to the point that it is no longer cute and has just reached the stage of being creepy. Beware of him because he might also turn into the guy who likes to whoop ass. The Loser wants absolutely nothing out of life but to party and bull shit. He feels that someone should be there to take care of him and he never should have to step up his game or mature. That kind of man will drain your energy while expecting you to carry him.